Category: Ben

    Florida Vacation

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    Ben had a work trip to Florida so I invited myself to come with him. My sister in laws in PG all said they were willing to help with the kids so I got to go! I am not ready to be done nursing yet and middle of the night babysitting is a lot harder to ask for so Raymond got to come with. We flew out on Saturday morning and barely made our flight! We Were THE last ones to board. We changed planes in Houston and I was happy to get to sit next to Ben for the 2nd flight instead of squished between 2 grown men in the very last row. If you are a frequent flyer you KNOW that is the last place you want to be. But, again, I was happy to be on the plane at that point. Anywhere on the plane. We checked in to one of the beach hotels in Ft Lauderdale that night.

    our beach and our hotel – Bahia Mar

    We ate at a really nice Brazilian restaurant. The most authentic we’ve found to date but Raymond decided to cut a tooth right then and got super grouchy. We left in a hurry and decided not to eat out any more during our trip. We enjoyed the warm ocean water and looked at the beach while watching conference and looked at the beach while Raymond napped. We went on a couple of walks. We bought our food and snacks at 7-eleven where they were affordable. The bridges and waterways were fascinating.

    Raymond testing out the water

    Ray liked his cage for playing NOT for sleeping.

    waiting for the bridge to lower

    warm waveless water – that has been my florida ocean experience

    Monday we woke up to rain but it was warm rain. We checked out of the hotel and headed to the State Park that we had passed earlier. We went on a walk through the park and passed some amazing waterfront homes. Then we punched in the next location on our GPS and went to the FLORIDA EVERGLADES. We went on an air boat! Air boats are fun! and gliding over the grassy swamp was fun. We had a fun tour guide and saw one wild Gator, and lots of gators in their exhibit. We got back in our rental and found the SawGrass Shopping which was a HUGE mall and TONS of people were there. We people watched and window shopped and enjoyed spending the afternoon together.

    trying to capture the beauty behind us at John Birch State Park (?)

    should I take my boat or car in to town?

    Ready to go on the air boat – Ray would suck his thumb whenever he was a little worried or scared or tired.

    cutting through the grass, wind whipping through your hair, warm sun shining down…

    They call it Gator Chasing and we did find one gator and he came right up to our boat.

    Coming back in from our boat ride. About 30 minutes. 20$ per person. Raymond did not like it but finally fell asleep.

    Monday night we checked in to a new hotel where Ben had his conference. It was a little inland from the beach – the Bonaventure. We tried Lucille’s Diner and waited FOREVER for Monday night football to start – East Coast time is crazy! and parking in Florida is meant for cars not vans and SUV’s and every where we went Raymond was the star attraction. I maybe saw 10 other kids the whole time we were gone! Ben was in classes on Tuesday and Wednesday so Ray and I went on long walks around the resorts and golf course and we hung out by the pool and listened to my audio book and did a little shopping and eating.

    the new hotel pond

    the water was a little cool and Ray was nervous about the water fall.

    eating cheerios – i’m still amazed when its so warm that you don’t need a towel… weird

    The reason we ate in most nights and were glad we had two beds… the crib was a great play area but Ray DID NOT sleep in it.

    these little lizards were EVERYWHERE

    I picked Ben up at the hotel right after his last Class and we headed straight for the airport. We experienced the 9:00 hour 3 different times with the time changes but we eventually got back to SLC and home to our beds and Raymond finally slept without me! I enjoyed my vacation. It was fun to try new things and new places and be the minority and take a break from cooking and cleaning and have more time with Ben. I didn’t hear the word mom for 5 days! that was weird. We missed the kids and were excited to pick them up Thursday morning!

     

    Categories: Ben, Jana, Raymond

    Fathers Day

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    Father’s Day 2012 (I thought I posted this 3 days ago – oops)

    Cali had some cute answers about dad

    We all gathered around Ben’s bed on Sunday morning and wished him a happy father’s Day. We got him a few small gifts and cute cards. After church we just relaxed, the kids and I had just got home from CA and Ben from scout camp so it was nice to just be home. For dinner we were able to go to Ben’s dads house and be with him and Grandpa Becker and lots of family. Rose ate the sandbox while the rest of us ate dinner – grandpa might need to buy some refill sand after that feast.

    we all chipped in for some large wind chimes!

    Ben is a GREAT dad.

    Grandpa Becker played his Garbage Can for us! He told me that he bought the Garbage can Instrument for 75$. He met a guy that had a little band and the guy told him he could come over so he brought his garbage can instrument and he played in the band for years. They played at Lagoon and at Rest Homes. Lots of Polka songs. So Sunday night for fathers day we had a little polka dance before everyone had to leave! it was awesome.

    Ray Becker Strumming the Can

    dancing kids

    the Utah crew (still missing Rick)

    I have wonderful Fathers in my life. I love all of them. I was actually able to spend time with all of them within a one week span. I spent time with my dad and left a gift before I came home from CA, we had this celebration on Sunday for Ben, Rick and Ray and then I was able to visit my maternal grandfather later in the week. The other 2 grandpa’s have already passed on. Great men make a big difference – especially for my little family. We love you all.

    Categories: Ben, Nettesheim

    The Avengers!

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    We Love Super Hero Movies. We had been waiting for this one to come out and it did not disappoint. We went for a post birthday celebration for Ben. His parents, 4 siblings and their spouses were all able to watch it with us.

    the Nettesheim group

    Captain America is Ben's favorite.

    On Friday night we want to The Pizza Pie with Joel, Brady, Kelsey, LaNell and Dan. I had never been. I enjoyed the variety. And the company was “nice”.

    cookie dough dessert pizza was yummy

    On Sunday we got to have dinner with Ben’s family. His mom and both Grandma’s were there so that was neat.

    Grandma Nettesheim sporting the mustache cookie!

    Categories: Ben, Nettesheim

    Ben and Benji

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    While I was in California with most of the kids Ben made sure to spoil Benji so that he wouldn’t have time to miss us. It ended up being some really good father/son time and we all survived the separation 🙂

    big bowls of ice cream!

    Pirates in 3D - I'm pretty sure theater food was dinner that night.

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    happy birthday BEN

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    birthday boy

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    Ben is 1 year older and 1 year wiser. His birthday fell on a busy Wednesday this year but we made the most of it. We went out for lunch with the kids. Then Ben brought home pizza and we opened presents at 5:ish and we had soccer practice from 5:15 to 7:00. After practice we went straight over to the championship soccer game for Diego and Cody. We watched the game and hung out with family and topped off the evening with cupcakes.

    Packer worked on an art book all afternoon to give to Dad. His main gift is a new motorcycle helmet 🙂

    Ben is amazing. I am HAPPY that he was born – so Happy. I can’t imagine this life without him.  We are off to see Avengers this weekend to complete the celebration!

    Happy Birthday!

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    Ben and “Press Here”

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    We got a new kids book!

    Ben went to Benji’s classroom on his lunch hour yesterday and read a story to the class. I think they have someone come every Monday and Benji was so excited to have his dad come. He did the same last year when Benji was in Kindergarten and they both loved it. I wish I would have gotten a picture of them. I love that Ben takes time to do little things that are special and the kids will remember. Hopefully he can keep it up with the other kids ( no pressure :)) He found an interactive book called “Press Here” and the kids are loving it.

    We read this book at least 15 times already.

    If you want to you can buy it here at Amazon. Anyway, just thought I’d share the cool book and the coolness of a dad that can take a lunch break and make his 1st graders day 🙂

    Categories: Ben, Benji

    My Husband

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    Ben is awesome. Today he is taking the day off and instead of taking advantage of the one time to sleep in he is up with the kids, getting bottles, doing advent calendars, making hot chocolate and being a great dad! I love that he loves the holiday season and brings so much fun and joy and perspective for our family. Today kicks off the holiday chaos for us – we have family gatherings today and tomorrow and Christmas Day and somewhere in there I am packing our bags to head to California at 6am on Monday. I am actually feeling quite prepared and ready so now it’s just exciting… Here we go …

    Ben and the kids

    can't believe these guys are all mine! love'em all

    Categories: Ben, General

    Good Bye MOVEMBER!

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    Mozy Stashes

    Ben has been supporting "Men's Health Awareness" for the month of November...

    I will not miss you Mustachio!

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    < My Baby >

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    Rose Kristine - 14 Months!

    This Little Girl has finally taken her first step! Only one step but still… She is in that “super cute, everything you do is adorable and we could just sit and watch you all day” stage. She brings a smile to my face constantly.

    P.S. she has Daddy wrapped around her finger – he has phone apps downloaded just for her and always gets daddy time and gets away with everything. Love it…

    Daddy's Girl

    Categories: Ben, Rose